Due to the response, Borsenik posted a follow-up video, where she went into more detail about how the tip jar works while she ...

At the most recent party, however, I noticed she had set up a tip jar next to the drinks. I was horrified. I went over and grabbed the jar, then pulled her aside and said that I was sorry that she ...

Advice Miss Manners: I hired staff for my party and was horrified when they put out a tip jar Published: Mar. 14, 2025, 1:00 p.m.

And with you. It is rude to leave out a tip jar in a private home. It screams, as you indicated, that your employees are not satisfied with their pay -- or are crassly looking for extra.

And with you. It is rude to leave out a tip jar in a private home. It screams, as you indicated, that your employees are not satisfied with their pay -- or are crassly looking for extra.

And with you. It is rude to leave out a tip jar in a private home. It screams, as you indicated, that your employees are not satisfied with their pay -- or are crassly looking for extra.

And with you. It is rude to leave out a tip jar in a private home. It screams, as you indicated, that your employees are not satisfied with their pay -- or are crassly looking for extra.