Key points Exerting control over others is neither good nor bad; it depends on the context and personality of the individual. People with a criminal personality seek control for its own sake ...

Controlling people try to control events, situations, or people to an unhealthy extent. In relationships, controlling behavior can be abusive. Learn more here.

Narcissists thrive on manipulation. Therapists share how to take control away from a narcissist, plus how to shut one down safely.

Control is never a good thing for a relationship, but there are some ways to catch certain phrases that indicate this kind of harmful manipulation —so you can stop it in its tracks.

The key is to conduct an honest assessment to determine if you are being honest with yourself and achieving all the greatness that you richly deserve.

It could be therapy, meditation, journaling about your childhood or other formative experiences—anything that will bring you closer to an understanding of the fears driving the need for control.